Unsure of what the future brings us, young and full of hopes
and dreams, we step into the difficult life of dating and relationships without
any experience. And then, based only on what we feel, we think the right
partner is the person that gives us the biggest thrill, the one that first
makes us feel an impossible to fight attraction.
So our first experiences of love are physical, and they
can’t always be the right choices. Among lots of sad love stories and many more
disappointments one can find the right one that makes them complete and safe.
Maybe the word safe turns many hearts away, it may seem
wrong to romantic persons, but that is the key that unlock the door to a
perfect partner and a perfect relationship.
So, to find the right one we have to look deep inside
ourselves and see what our most intimate desires are. We have to know ourselves
at the highest level to discover what exactly we expect from others. Once we
did that, then we are ready to explore, search the world for the one and if we’re
lucky we’ll find our happiness. The first criterion one must rely on is the
heart, of course, because where everything is perfect but there’s no love,
which is not a relationship, that’s a friendship. So find someone you love and
start a relationship. Then, after the first weeks when everything is perfect no
matter what, the blindness of love will begin to disappear and you be able to
see everything that makes your partner what he/she is: all the qualities and
all the defects. Putting everything in balance is the key. Here’s where the
second criteria comes forward, a criteria that must be based on reason: here
you must think hard and see if you can live forever maybe with the one you
love. Most of the times, when nothing is wrong apparently, people go on and on
with meaningless relationships that become a habit more that a love. You must,
above everything, never do that mistake cause if you do you’ll see the truth
too late, when many disappointments changed you and made you more bitter in
love.
In conclusion, finding the right partner is easy for
everyone that knows hoe to use his/hers hearts and mind as one. If we suffer a
little when we give up on a love that makes us sad and angry, we’ll be
plentifully rewarded when we’ll find out we did a right choice and that choice
was the one that allowed us to meet and keep the right one next to us.
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