To work as a couple is usually pretty difficult, especially
when you try to satisfy the tastes and desires of both parties. Each one has
his or her own carrier, she has her tastes, he has his, and together they must
find a solution to a compromise they never managed to make.
Pretty hard to accomplish, especially because both try to
argument their point of view and they try to make their theory win in totality,
without letting some ideas of the other party slip within.
The compromise
Let’s say
this is a big house. She is an art collector and he isn’t. Then she gets the
living as a space for her hobby and he gets the mansard. She will decide the
style of one bedroom, he will decide the office-room decoration. And so on...
this is usually a satisfactory solution as long as each of them gets to
decorate the rooms that mean most to them.
Another approach is to try and find out just what are those
common points they have. There must be common points, there always are, just
that no one thought of finding them yet. Discovering common tasted will help
the couple discover a new life style. This is a good solution to stay out of
couples’ therapy whenever you stumble across some misunderstanding.
What to learn from this?
Each one of them has to learn something that is the whole
point in these kinds of misunderstandings. They have to learn to know their
limits and each other’s also. They must understand and remember the wishes and
desires of the other one, they must learn not to try and impose their opinion
at any cost because there surely are other solutions. Making common decisions
and learning to compromise will make the couple happy.
Perfect couple for decorating the
house
The perfect couple, which will please the interior designer
is a couple of well educated and behaved persons. It will be a nice surprise
once both persons will add their own suggestions without fighting over them,
when they are correctly informed and willing to understand the other’s
opinions.
Living and decorating together means mostly finding the
middle ways, that can satisfy both parties and still look good.
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