superglue eyes. Let’s call them “Epoxy Eyes.” Big bosses use Epoxy
Eyes to evaluate employees. Police investigators use Epoxy Eyes to
intimidate suspected criminals. And clever Romeos use Epoxy
Eyes to make women fall in love with them. (If romance is your
goal, Epoxy Eyes is a proven aphrodisiac.)
The Epoxy Eyes technique takes at least three people to pull
off—you, your target, and one other person. Here’s how it works.
Usually, when you’re chatting with two or more people, you gaze
at the person who is speaking. However, the Epoxy Eyes technique
suggests you concentrate on the listener—your target—rather than
the speaker. This slightly disorients the target and he or she silently
asks, “Why is this person looking at me instead of the speaker?”
Your target senses you are extremely interested in his or her reac-
tions. This can be beneficial in certain business situations when it
is appropriate that you judge the listener.
Human resources professionals often use Epoxy Eyes, not as
a technique, but because they are sincerely interested in a pro-
spective employee’s reaction to certain ideas being presented.
Attorneys, bosses, police investigators, psychologists, and others
who must examine subjects’ reactions also use Epoxy Eyes for ana-
lytical purposes.
When you use Epoxy Eyes, it sends out signals of interest
blended with complete confidence in yourself. But because Epoxy
Eyes puts you in a position of evaluating or judging someone else,
you must be careful. Don’t overdo it or you could come across as
arrogant and brazen.
Technique #3
Epoxy Eyes
This brazen technique packs a powerful punch. Watch
your target person even when someone else is talking.
No matter who is speaking, keep looking at the man or
woman you want to impact.
Sometimes using full Epoxy Eyes is too potent, so here is a
gentler, yet effective, form. Watch the speaker but let your glance
bounce to your target each time the speaker finishes a point. This
way Mr. or Ms. Target still feels you are intrigued by his or her
reactions, yet there is relief from the intensity.
Use Epoxy Eyes to Push Their
Erotic Button
If romance is on the horizon, Epoxy Eyes transmits yet another
message. It says, “I can’t take my eyes off you” or “I only have eyes
for you.” Anthropologists have dubbed eyes “the initial organ of
romance” because studies show intense eye contact plays havoc
with our heartbeat.8It also releases a druglike substance into our
nervous system called phenylethylamine. Since this is the hormone
detected in the human body during erotic excitement, intense eye
contact can be a turn-on.
Men, Epoxy Eyes is extremely effective on women—if they
find you attractive. The lady interprets her nervous reaction to
your untoward gaze as budding infatuation. If she does not like
you, however, your Epoxy Eyes is downright obnoxious. (Never
use Epoxy Eyes on strangers in public settings or you could get
arrested!)
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