How to Read People Like You Have ESP


Hans, a very clever horse, inspires this next technique. Hans was
owned by Herr von Osten, a Berliner, who had trained Hans to
do simple arithmetic by tapping his right front hoof. So prodigious
was Hans’s ability that the horse’s fame quickly spread throughout
Europe in the early 1900s. He became known as Clever Hans, the
counting horse.
Herr von Osten taught Hans to do more than just add. Soon
the horse could subtract and divide. In time, Clever Hans even
mastered the multiplication tables. The horse became quite a phe-
nomenon. Without his owner uttering a single word, Hans could
count out the size of his audience, tap the number wearing glasses,
or respond to any counting question they asked him.
Finally, Hans achieved the ultimate ability that separates man
from animal—language. Hans “learned” the alphabet. By tapping
out hoof beats for each letter, he answered any question about any-
thing humans had read in a newspaper or heard on the radio. He
could even answer common questions about history, geography,
and human biology.
Hans made headlines and was the main topic of discussion at
dinner parties throughout Europe. The “human horse” quickly
attracted the attention of scientists, psychology professors, veteri-
narians, even cavalry officers. Naturally they were skeptical, so
they established an official commission to decide whether the horse
was a case of clever trickery or equine genius. Whatever their sus-
picions, it was obvious to all, Hans was a very smart horse. Com-
pared to other horses, Hans was a Somebody.
Cut to today. Why is it when you talk with certain individu-
als you just know they are smarter than other people—that they
are a Somebody? Often they’re not discussing highfalutin subjects
or using two-dollar words. Nevertheless, everybody knows. Peo-
ple say, “She’s smart as a whip,” “He doesn’t miss a trick,” “She
picks up on everything,” “He’s got the right stuff,” “She’s got horse
sense.” Which brings us back to Hans.
The day of the big test arrived. Everyone was convinced it
must be a trick orchestrated by Herr von Osten, Hans’s owner. It
was standing room only in the auditorium filled with scientists,
reporters, clairvoyants, psychics, and horse lovers who eagerly
awaited the answer. The canny commission members were con-
fident this was the day they would expose Hans as chicanery
because they, too, had a trick up their sleeves. They were going
to bar von Osten from the hall and put his horse to the test all
alone.
When the crowd was assembled, they told von Osten he must
leave the auditorium. The surprised owner departed, and Hans
was stranded in an auditorium with a suspicious and anxious
audience.
The confident commission leader asked Hans the first math-
ematical question. He tapped out the right answer! A second. He
got it right! Then a third. Then the language questions followed.
He got them all right!
The commission was befuddled. The critics were silenced.
However, the public wasn’t. With a great outcry, they insisted
on a new commission. The world waited while, once again, the
authorities gathered scientists, professors, veterinarians, cavalry
officers, and reporters from around the world.
Only after this second commission put Hans to the test did
the truth about the clever horse come out. Commission number
two started the enquiry perfunctorily with a simple addition prob-
lem. This time, however, instead of asking the question out loud
for all to hear, one researcher whispered a number in Hans’s ear,
and a second researcher whispered another. Everyone expected
Hans to quickly tap out the sum. But Hans remained dumb! Aha!
The researchers revealed the truth to the waiting world. Can you
guess what that was?
Here’s a hint: when the audience or researcher knew the
answer, Hans did, too. Now can you guess?
People gave off very subtle body-language signals the moment
Hans’s hoof gave the right number of taps. When Hans started
tapping the answer to a question, the audience would show sub-
tle signs of tension. Then, when Hans reached the right number,
they responded by an expulsion of breath or slight relaxation of
muscles. Von Osten had trained Hans to stop tapping at that point
and therefore appear to give the right answer.
Hans was using the technique I call “Hans’s Horse Sense.” He
watched his audiences’ reactions very carefully and planned his
responses accordingly.
If a Horse Can Do It, So Can You
Have you ever been watching TV when the phone rings? Someone
asks you to hit the mute button on the television so they can talk.
Because there’s no sound now, you watch the TV action more care-
fully. You see performers smiling, scowling, smirking, squinting,
and scores of other expressions. You don’t miss a bit of the story
because, just from their expressions, you can tell what they’re think-
ing. Hans’s Horse Sense is just that—watching people, seeing how
they’re reacting, and then making your moves accordingly. Even
while you’re talking, keep your eyes on your listeners and watch how
they’re responding to what you’re saying. Don’t miss a trick.
Are they smiling? Are they nodding? Are their palms up? They
like what they’re hearing.
Are they frowning? Are they looking away? Are their knuck-
les clenched? Maybe they don’t.
Are they rubbing their necks? Are they stepping back? Are
their feet pointing toward the door? Maybe they want to get away.
You don’t need a complete course in body language here.
Already your life’s experience has given you a good grounding in
that. Most people know if their conversation partners step back or
look away, they’re not interested in what you’re saying. When they
think you’re a pain in the neck they rub theirs. When they feel
superior to you, they steeple their hands.
We’ll explore more body-language specifics in Technique #77:
Eyeball Selling. For the moment, all you need to do is tune to the
silent channel being broadcast by the speaker.
Technique #8
Hans’s Horse Sense

Make it a habit to get on a dual track while talking.
Express yourself, but keep a keen eye on how your
listener is reacting to what you’re saying. Then plan
your moves accordingly.
If a horse can do it, so can a human. People will say
you pick up on everything. You never miss a trick.
You’ve got horse sense.
You now have eight techniques to help you come across as a
confident, credible, and charismatic person who makes everyone
he or she comes in contact with feel like a million. Let’s explore
one last technique in this section to put it all together and make
sure you don’t miss a beat.

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Wish For Bangladesh

Wish For Bangladesh

Bangladesh Informations

Bangladesh emerged as an independent and sovereign country in 1971 following a ninemonth war of liberation. It is one of the largest deltas of the world with a total area of 147,570 sq. km. With a unique communal harmony, Bangladesh has a population of about 142 million, making it one of the densely populated countries of the world. The majority (about 88%) of the people are Muslim. Over 98% of the people speak in Bangla. English, however, is widely spoken. The country is covered with a network of rivers and canals forming a maze of interconnecting channels.
Bangladesh has a glorious history and rich heritage. Once it was known as ‘Sonar Bangla’ or the Golden Bengal. The territory now constituting Bangladesh was under the Muslim rule for over five and a half centuries from 1201 to 1757 AD. Subsequently, it came under the British rule following the defeat of the sovereign ruler, Nawab Sirajuddaula, at the battle of Palassey on 23 June, 1757. The British ruled over the Indian sub-continent including this territory for nearly 190 years from 1757 to 1947. During that period, Bangladesh was a part of the British Indian provinces of Bengal and Assam. With the termination of British rule in August 1947, the sub-continent was partitioned into India and Pakistan. Bangladesh formed a part of Pakistan and was called ‘East Pakistan’. It remained so for about 24 years from August 14, 1947 to March 25, 1971. Bangladesh liberated on December 16, 1971 following the victory of the War of Liberation and appeared on the world map as an independent and sovereign country.The country is the pioneer in micro-credit concept for poverty reduction, which brought the Nobel Prize in Peace for the country in 2006. The founder of world reputed Grameen Bank Professor Dr. Muhammad Yunus is the Nobel laureate.

The Natural Beauty Of Bangladesh

Have you thought of a dream holiday where you see yourself on that very attractive magical coastline with very beautiful features like those in the fairy tales? Did you know that such features really exist on this very planet?

Talking of wonderful eye-catching sites let us take a trip to the North Eastern part of south Asia and land safely in one of the most beautiful countries on the planet: Bangladesh. The country is surrounded by some of the most prominent geographical features studied worldwide. To the north of Bangladesh are the famous Himalayas while the bay of the Bengal borders her from the South. To her East is the hilly region of Tripura, India and Myanmar. Finally to her West lies the west Bengal. Together these features form a low lying plain in between that is the country in their midst; Bangladesh.

The plain between all these features has plenty of rivers flowing across it forming a nice natural beautiful pattern of rivers and streams network. Padma, Meghna, Kamafull and Brahmaputra are the major rivers in this very beautiful land.

History goes hand in hand with the Natural Beauty of Bangladesh. Talking of historical sites she has quite a number of rich archeological sites to offer. This includes the Paharpur, Maianamati, Sonargaon among many others.

It also has a historical mosques and monuments. The sixty Dome mosque built in the 15th century is the largest historical in Bangladesh as well as the words heritage is situated in Bagerhat. It is also upheld for an outstanding architectural value. However, the Shait Gombuj mosque is the most magnificent and the largest brick mosque surviving in the country.

Bangladesh is not just named a natural beauty for nothing this is a title that it has fought for through its great and eye catching extraordinary features. She happens to be the home to the world's longest natural beach in the whole world. The land is mainly covered by plant cover as most of the people practice Agriculture.

Apart from the natural beauty of Bangladesh brought forth by the flora in the country, the country also has a great deal of wildlife. She is the home of the dhole; the most endangered Asiatic top predator that is on the edge of extinction. It also has the Asian elephant which is the largest mammal. Finally she has the Bengal tiger which is the national animal of the country. The next time you thinking of spending time in a beautiful place where you will be able to watch and appreciate nature's beauty, think of Bangladesh.